Understanding MIAMs
What is a MIAM and why is it required?
Understanding the MIAM process can be confusing, but we have the information to make it clearer.
MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is a private, one-to-one meeting between you and an accredited family mediator.
You may also hear it called:
- A MIAM meeting.
- A mediation assessment.
- The first meeting.
- A one-to-one meeting.
However, a MIAM meeting is not a mediation session. Instead, it gives you the space to explain your situation and make informed decisions about your next step. If you are still unsure of your options or want to explore things in more depth, the guidance below will help you understand the MIAM process and what comes after it.
Explore the process
Guidance on the MIAM process and related issues
These topic areas explain when a MIAM is required, what happens during the meeting, and what your options may be afterwards.
Do I need a MIAM before going to court?
Before you apply to the family court, you must usually attend a MIAM unless a recognised exemption applies.
Find out when a MIAM is required and how this works in practice.
Are there any MIAM exemptions?
In some situations, you may not need to attend a MIAM. Exemptions only apply if you meet specific criteria and you may need supporting evidence.
Explore whether an exemption applies to your situation.
What happens during a MIAM?
A MIAM has three clear purposes: to help you understand how mediation works, consider whether it suits your situation, and decide on the most appropriate next step.
Read a full explanation of the process.
MIAM certificates and court applications
If mediation does not move forward, or the mediator decides it is not suitable, the relevant section of your court application form will be completed.
Learn how a MIAM certificate allows you to proceed.
My ex won’t let me see my child — what should I do?
If you are being stopped from seeing your child, it can feel overwhelming. Loss of contact is serious, but how you respond now can make a significant difference.
Learn more here.
What is shuttle mediation?
If sitting in the same room as your ex-partner feels overwhelming, shuttle mediation may provide a safer and more manageable way to take part.
Learn how shuttle mediation works.
Suitability
Does a MIAM mean mediation is right for me?
Attending a MIAM does not commit you to mediation. For many people, the MIAM is where things begin to feel clearer. If mediation is suitable, it gives both parties a more structured way to approach difficult conversations and work towards a practical outcome.
However, if mediation is not appropriate, the MIAM certificate still ensures you understand the next steps and allows you to move forward with court where necessary.
Take the next step
Explore your options with a MIAM
The MIAM meeting helps you take control of the situation rather than reacting to it.
Arrange your MIAM appointment and take the first step at your own pace.